Private Matchmaking in Shanghai

Considered introductions for accomplished people in Shanghai who want a lasting relationship, not another networking event.

A More Private Way to Meet Someone in Shanghai

Shanghai moves quickly and rewards ambition. It is a vast, international city with a wide social world, and very little privacy in which to look for a partner who fits a demanding life. Matchmaking in Shanghai answers that. It offers a private, considered way to meet someone serious, away from the apps and the public eye.

The city's pace leaves little room for a careful search. Circles overlap, word travels, and the people worth finding are the hardest to reach.

Christiana Maxion Matchmaking replaces chance with method. Our team searches a vetted global network on your behalf and curates every introduction, quietly and deliberately.

Private Luxury Matchmaking for Shanghai's Most Accomplished

Christiana Maxion runs a discreet, luxury matchmaking service for accomplished people in Shanghai and across the region and beyond. Our clients have built careers, companies, and reputations. Dating on their own proved too public, too slow, and too often with the wrong people.

Nothing here is automated. No apps, no algorithms, no public profiles. Every match is considered and chosen by our team, around who you are and what you are building.

50,000+
exceptional individuals 
in our database
350+
media mentions worldwide
150+
countries where we match

Why Matchmaking Works in Shanghai

Christiana Maxion Matchmaking is essentially an executive search firm for the most important role in your life: your life partner.
1

Private matchmaking 
in a public city

Shanghai dating is fast and very public. We introduce you privately, with your search protected at every step.
2

Matchmaking that 
saves your time

You have no spare hours to search. Our team does it for you, vets everyone, and arranges meetings that fit your schedule.
3

Vetted introductions, 
real intent

Apps are full of half-decisions. Each person we introduce is vetted, serious, and ready for something real.
Whilst other agencies don't have the network and take months to find you your first date,
Christiana Maxion Matchmaking puts you on your first date within days. 
We run the search for you. You meet the right person. We handle all the rest.

Who We Represent

We work with accomplished professionals in Shanghai who are ready for a serious relationship and short on time to find it. Some are prominent; all are private.

  • Founders and international executives
  • Investors and fund principals
  • Senior executives and board members
  • Family office principals and heirs
  • Bankers, lawyers, and surgeons with demanding schedules
  • Expats and residents living in Shanghai full or part of the year
  • Public figures who need a private search

They share three things: packed schedules, no patience for apps, and a clear idea of the partner they seek. That is where we start.

Matchmaking Across Shanghai

Our clients live across Shanghai's most established areas, from the Bund, Xintiandi, and the Former French Concession to Jing'an, Lujiazui, Xuhui, and Hongqiao. Wherever you are based, your search is handled with the same discretion and care.

Some clients want a partner in Shanghai. Others move between cities and need the search to move with them. A global network makes both possible.

Trusted all over the world

The same discreet, personal search, in the cities where our clients live, work, and travel.
150
countries

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our five

principles

96%
match success rate

discretion

Your privacy is absolute. Every part of the service is confidential.

speed

Most clients meet the first match within days. 
Nothing is wasted.

trust

One team, one process. 
Every person is known to us before they reach you.

access

A global network of extraordinary singles you would never meet through conventional channels.

quality

Every profile is personally vetted. We prioritise depth over volume.
the

process

1

private consultation

A confidential call with our team. We listen who you are, what you've been looking for.
2

curated match session

A private session where you review carefully selected matches before being invited for a full-time membership. Small fee applies.
3

membership & onboarding

We present your tailored offer and begin immediately.
4

start dating

We arrange everything on your behalf. You just show up and enjoy the date.

сhoose
your path

premium

paying client

You are actively represented by Christiana's team
We handle the search, the introductions, and the process
You receive guaranteed dates
Direct access to the matchmaking team
Personalised, hands-on service from start to finish
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complimentary

passive network

Your profile is added to our private global database
You may be matched with a premium paying client
Not actively represented
No guaranteed dates or introductions
No direct access to the matchmaking team
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answering your questions

Christiana Maxion Matchmaking brings an executive-search method to Shanghai: a discreet, human-led process inside a vetted global network, with a 96 percent match success rate.

CMM works differently from a Shanghai dating agency. We are a private matchmaking firm: our team runs the search, vets every introduction, and stays with you personally until the match.

Fees depend on the scope of your search and are agreed after a private consultation. Premium membership is by application, while joining the network itself is free, and network members can be matched with paying clients.

No. Many of our Shanghai clients meet people from our network in Hong Kong, Singapore, London, Dubai, and New York. Your search can stay local or extend across the world, depending on what you are looking for.

Yes. Shanghai's international community is core to our client base. With a global network, the search continues wherever your work takes you.

Apps deliver strangers at scale. Matchmaking delivers a few right people: vetted, chosen by a team, with your privacy protected throughout.

A confidential call comes first. Then sample candidates, so you can judge the network before committing. Once agreed, the search launches within the week, with every meeting arranged for you.