Private Matchmaking in San Francisco

Curated introductions for accomplished people in San Francisco who want a real relationship, handled with discretion.

A More Private Way to Meet Someone in San Francisco

San Francisco moves quickly and rewards ambition. It is a compact city with a wide social world, and very little privacy in which to look for a partner who fits a demanding life. Matchmaking in San Francisco answers that. It offers a private, considered way to meet someone serious, away from the apps and the public eye.

Here, work absorbs everything. Social circles are small and professional, gossip travels fast, and the right person rarely sits in your network.

Christiana Maxion Matchmaking treats the search like the serious project it is: a vetted global network, human judgment over algorithms, and every introduction chosen by hand.

Private Luxury Matchmaking for San Francisco's Most Accomplished

Christiana Maxion runs a discreet, luxury matchmaking service for accomplished people in San Francisco and across the Bay Area and beyond. Our clients have built careers, companies, and reputations. Dating on their own proved too public, too slow, and too often with the wrong people.

Ironically for this city, there is no software in the loop. No apps, no algorithms, no profiles. Every match is a human decision, made around who you are and what you are building.

50,000+
exceptional individuals 
in our database
350+
media mentions worldwide
150+
countries where we match

Why Matchmaking Works in San Francisco

Christiana Maxion Matchmaking is essentially an executive search firm for the most important role in your life: your life partner.
1

Private matchmaking 
in a public city

San Francisco dating is fast and very public. We introduce you privately, with your search protected at every step.
2

Matchmaking that 
saves your time

You are building something demanding. We run this search like a hiring process: sourced, vetted, and shortlisted before you invest an hour.
3

Vetted introductions, 
real intent

Apps optimize for engagement, not outcomes. Every person we introduce is vetted and genuinely ready to commit.
Whilst other agencies don't have the network and take months to find you your first date,
Christiana Maxion Matchmaking puts you on your first date within days. 
We run the search for you. You meet the right person. We handle all the rest.

Who We Represent

We work with accomplished people across San Francisco and the Bay Area who are serious about a partner and consumed by what they are building.

  • Tech founders and startup executives
  • Venture investors and fund principals
  • Senior executives and board members
  • Family office principals and heirs
  • Bankers, lawyers, and surgeons with demanding schedules
  • Expats and residents living in San Francisco full or part of the year
  • Public figures who need a private search

What they have in common: little free time, less patience for apps, and a clear spec for the relationship they want. Our team takes it from there.

Matchmaking Across San Francisco

Our clients live across San Francisco's most established neighbourhoods, from Pacific Heights, Presidio Heights, and Russian Hill to the Marina, Noe Valley, Sausalito, and Silicon Valley. Wherever you are based, your search is handled with the same discretion and care.

Some clients want a partner in the Bay Area. Others are open to someone a flight away. Because the network is global, the search follows your life, not the map.

Trusted all over the world

The same discreet, personal search, in the cities where our clients live, work, and travel.
150
countries

our five

principles

96%
match success rate

discretion

Your privacy is absolute. Every part of the service is confidential.

speed

Most clients meet the first match within days. 
Nothing is wasted.

trust

One team, one process. 
Every person is known to us before they reach you.

access

A global network of extraordinary singles you would never meet through conventional channels.

quality

Every profile is personally vetted. We prioritise depth over volume.
the

process

1

private consultation

A confidential call with our team. We listen who you are, what you've been looking for.
2

curated match session

A private session where you review carefully selected matches before being invited for a full-time membership. Small fee applies.
3

membership & onboarding

We present your tailored offer and begin immediately.
4

start dating

We arrange everything on your behalf. You just show up and enjoy the date.

сhoose
your path

premium

paying client

You are actively represented by Christiana's team
We handle the search, the introductions, and the process
You receive guaranteed dates
Direct access to the matchmaking team
Personalised, hands-on service from start to finish
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complimentary

passive network

Your profile is added to our private global database
You may be matched with a premium paying client
Not actively represented
No guaranteed dates or introductions
No direct access to the matchmaking team
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answering your questions

Christiana Maxion Matchmaking runs a team-led, executive-search process for accomplished singles in San Francisco: a vetted global network, human judgment at every step, and a 96 percent match success rate.

We are a private matchmaking firm rather than a San Francisco dating agency. Instead of handing you a stack of profiles, our team runs the search end to end, vetting every introduction personally.

Pricing is bespoke: an application, then a private consultation, then a fee that reflects your search. There is also a no-cost option, joining the network, where you may be matched with a paying client.

No. Many of our San Francisco clients meet people from our network in New York, Los Angeles, London, Dubai, and Singapore. Your search can stay local or extend across the world, depending on what you are looking for.

Yes. Many of our San Francisco clients moved here from somewhere else and may move again. A global network means the search keeps pace with that.

Apps are built to keep you swiping. Matchmaking is built to end the search: team-vetted introductions, full privacy, and people who are actually ready.

It starts with a confidential call, followed by a look at sample candidates before you commit anything. Once membership is agreed, the search kicks off that same week, meetings arranged end to end.